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Sunday, November 20, 2011

New Review!

Blueberry Girl by Neil Gaiman Illustrated by Charles Vess

I love a kids book that shows little girls who are brave and adventurous and independent. I love it even more when it isn't about marriage or princes or any of the other hetero-normative storylines that are often still the underscore of such books.

In Blueberry Girl, Gaiman writes a beautiful incantation for an unborn child, wishing her strength and wisdom and freedom. He is also wishing her freedom from the trappings of the stories girls have been told for generations...

"Keep her from spindles, and sleeps at sixteen. Let her stay waking and wise."

The wishes are presented as a sort of prayer to feminine ancestors, or perhaps pagan goddesses watching over the child.

I think that is is an empowering book for kids and adults alike. It's bright, charming illustrations, and lilting text are compelling to kids and even some references that may be lost on little ones will speak more to the adult reader.

Friday, March 11, 2011

Girls Will be Boys Will be Girls

A short and shameless plug for a project that I was involved in many years ago, and am still very proud of...
I couldn't make a list of my favorite children's books without including the coloring book, Boys Will be Girls Will be Boys, created by Jacinta Bunnell and Irit Reinheimer and illustrated by 21 artists (including myself.)
Originally printed as a zine with cut and paste illustrations, it was reprinted by Soft Skull Press with new illustrations drawn by an impressive array of artists in 2004.
The coloring book addresses the issue of gender with page titles such as "Sometimes the princess is saved by the girl next door," and "Don't let gender box you in."
I highly recommend getting a copy of the coloring book for all the kids in your life. It is humorous and beautiful, and even includes questions for discussing gender with kids!
You can order it here

http://www.etsy.com/listing/58501475/girls-will-be-boys-will-be-girls-will

along with the wonderful follow ups, Girls are Not Chicks, and Sometimes the Spoon Runs Away With Another Spoon!!

Paper Revolutionary

"All writing is propaganda... whether a story is political or not, it's political."
- Derrick Jensen, interviewed in Mythmakers and Lawbreakers; Anarchist Writers on Fiction

I think that it easy to dismiss writing as a revolutionary act, much as it is easy to dismiss parenting, or urban homesteading as revolutionary acts. It is easy to reserve the nomenclature for those taking to the streets and engaging in (often physical) struggle against a state or institution that is oppressing them.

from Merriam-Webster's dictionary,

rev·o·lu·tion·ary

  a : of, relating to, or constituting a revolution  
  b : tending to or promoting revolution 
  c : constituting or bringing about a major or fundamental change

and for reference...

rev·o·lu·tion

  a : a sudden, radical, or complete change b : a fundamental change in political organization; especially : the overthrow or renunciation of one government or ruler and the substitution of another by the governed c : activity or movement designed to effect fundamental changes in the socioeconomic situation d : a fundamental change in the way of thinking about or visualizing something : a change of paradigm

The fundamental change that it would take to make our culture stop destroying the planet and ourselves is not going to come from one specific type of action. I have always loved the phrase "unity in diversity." The idea that our different strengths, working together, makes for a stronger whole.


I read the book Mythmakers and Lawbreakers: Anarchist Writers on Fiction for this project. It may seem at first glance like an unlikely book to fit into the premise of what I am doing, but I think it is incredibly pertinent. How do we convey our politics and worldview through fiction, whether consciously or unconsciously? Another question I ask myself as an aspiring writer of children's fiction is "Is this enough? Should I be putting my energy into something else?"


In one of the first interviews in the book, author Derrick Jensen talks about how as writers we should use the gifts we have in service to our community, as in that old Marxist adage, "From each according to his ability, to each according to his need."

Jensen goes on to talk about how stories create culture... "[T]here's this line by a Scottish balladeer: "If I could write all the ballads, I wouldn't care who wrote the laws." And it's so true because stories are how we learn--we are for better or worse social creatures-- and stories are how we learn to be human beings. And if the stories you see routinely show people like you committing acts of violence and getting away with it, you're going to be different than if stories routinely show you being victimized."

Jensen also quotes Bertolt Brecht who wrote, "Art is not a mirror with which to reflect life, rather a hammer with which to shape it."

Although I think it can, ideally, be a compelling balance of both.

The book goes on to interview 13 other authors about their relationship with fiction and politics, my favorite interview being with Alan Moore, author of the graphic novels V for Vendetta and Watchmen.

"Inevitably," writes Moore "if you are creating a painting or writing a story, you are making propaganda, in a sense, for the way you feel, the way that you think, the way you see the world. You are trying to express your own view of reality and existence, and that is inevitably going to be a political action..."

In conclusion the books editor, Margaret Killjoy, observes "I am not going to argue that all we need to do is write books or tell stories around the hearth. Of course not.... But fiction is part of that uprooting"
"Fiction is even more important for the young, because we model our ideal selves on role models. We need heroes to learn from, and we need anti-heroes to remember that none of us are, or will ever be, perfect."

Stories create culture. And recreate and recreate. And every author, every historian and every storyteller has their own experience in the world that colors the stories they tell. We have grown up in a world that favors stories told by a certain sector of people, coming from a very specific perspective. And the lifting of that lens, so that we can acknowledge this, makes the discussions around the stories we are telling easier to have.  It also empowers us to to begin to seek out, and tell, stories from different perspectives and with values more in-line with our own. We have to be honest about the presence of bias before we can decide if we want to propagate the story being told.

 

Thursday, February 17, 2011

THE LIST: Books I Like #6

Pirate Girl by Cornelia Funke Illustrated by Kerstin Meyer

A simple story about a young pirate girl and her matriarchal pirate band and their encounter with an all male pirate crew. Silly, but a fun and empowering image of some bad-ass ladies.

Death of the Iron Horse by Paul Goble

I have mixed feelings about Goble's books. On the one hand, Goble writes beautifully about Native American folktales and history. On the other hand, I am uncomfortable with the fact that this is not his heritage, and being a white, British man, are they his stories to tell?

Death of the Iron Horse is the kind of kids' book I would like to see more of, as far as showing kids history from a perspective different than the one we normally hear in school and in the media. It tells the story of the derailment of a Union Pacific train by Cheyene people looking to defend their home from the encroachment of the white people who were stealing their land. Great book for opening discussion about history versus reality and the perceptions we have of Native American people.

And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell Illustrated by Henry Cole

The true story of two male penguins who get given an orphaned egg to hatch and raise as their own.

Nana Upstairs and Nana Downstairs by Tomie dePaola

My two favorite things about this book are how it shows families caring for their elders, and how begins to address death. I think that death is one of the things that we harm ourselves by waiting until we are confronted with it to figure out how we want to talk about it. This book begins to talk about aging and loss in a way that would be easy to share with kids.

The Little Green Goose by Adele Sansone Illustrated by Anke Faust

Mr. Goose wants a baby to raise himself, but none of the chickens will give him an egg to raise. He goes to the woods and finds a green egg that he sits on until out pops a baby lizard. Mr. Goose raises the baby as his own, in a story about what really makes a parent and a family.

Super Cilantro Girl by Juan Felipe Herrera Illustrated by Honorio Robledo Tapia

A great bilingual story about a young girl who turns into a superhero to rescue her mother who has been detained at the border for not having a green card. This story addresses how immigration issues affect families, and creates a space to talk further about these things with children.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Remaining Neutral is a Sea of Indoctrination

When I am having conversations with folks about my parenting choices, such as not wanting them to watch TV or being picky about what books I read them, I am often met with this question: What is the point?
The entire question is usually something like, "What is the point of even trying to shield them from the things you object to? Mainstream culture will seep in, no matter what. Your kid will eventually play princess and drink soda. We grew up doing those things, and we turned out just fine..."

I get it. I get that I am going to make compromises. I get that I cannot shelter my kids from everything I don't like about the world. I get that my ultimate goal as a parent is to help my kids figure out how to navigate the realities they will encounter and make decisions that are healthy for them and their community. But I also think that holding off on, say, seeping them in binary gender stereotypes for the first few years of their lives might just help them have a more open mind to the concept of gender as a spectrum. That, yes, most of people I love who are radical thinkers and doers were raised in very "mainstream" ways and managed to dissect and dismantle so much of what they were taught to find ways of existing in the world that feel more fulfilling to them. But that shit hurts. A lot. Wading through the muck and mire of sexism and racism and homphobia and transphobia and classism is grueling work. What if we gave our kids a fighting chance by laying out some other ways of thinking about things. They are going to spend a lifetime navigating the dominant culture's values and biases, and giving them skills with which to do so critically, but also a real groundwork in more just ways of exisiting seems like a good idea, to me.

The thing is this: I don't think there is any such thing as neutral, in this case. If we are not learning one thing, than we are learning another. If we are not questioning then we are accepting. There is always a set of values being instilled; From books, from TV, from school, from family, from every interaction and all the language we use, we are just too used to the status quo to notice much of it. We are creating and re-creating our culture, and we get to decide what that will look like. It is not born in our cells. We have to learn it to create it. There is no neutral.

On this note, I would like to review a couple of books given to us by family members, with the best of intentions. In both cases, I can completely see why the book was chosen. Both books contain incredible artwork, and a message of inspiration and a commitment to empowerment and doing good things for the world. I want to dig deeper, though, into the cultural values that are being passed along by the ways we think of as "doing good."


Listen to the Wind; The Story of Dr. Greg & Three Cups of Tea  by Greg Mortenson and Susan L. Roth Collages by Susan L. Roth

 This is the kid's version of a very Oprah book-club book about a white, North American man who got lost hiking in the mountains of Pakistan. As a way of thanking the village of people that nursed him back to health, and returns to civilize them. Basically.

To me it is an age-old story of the missionary. That we are taught that the values and ideals we have as white, western, christian, capitalist people is the ideal that the rest of the world wants, or should want.

Dr. Greg helps to build them a school because they weren't equipped to do any "real" learning without desks and chalkboards, of course. Where now they study English and have the attention of the entire world who can get to them by the brand -new bridge that Dr. Greg altruistically helped to build. Lucky them. A couple of books written about you and a bridge, literally and figuratively, to Western culture. One more nail in the coffin of the beauty of authentic diversity and intact cultures.

The ideal of the the selfless missionary is one we are fed again and again in our culture, and the underlying value seems to be of "taming the heathens," a deeply ingrained christian, colonialist goal.

This particular story also invokes images of the blue eyed, white knight, singlehandedly coming to the rescue of those that are being unjustly imprisoned, in this case by their indigenous lifestyle and un-civilized intelligence.

I get the point of the story, but the story does not stand alone. It is part of the larger story we are telling about our values and the value of the rest of the world. In this context, I do not feel the need to pass along one more version of this lesson to my children.

Of Thee I Sing; A Letter to My Daughters by Barack Obama Illustrated by Loren Long

There is actually a lot about this book that I like. When my mother first gave it to us, it was with the the warning "I know that you are gonna dismiss this, but it is really beautiful, and you should give it a chance."

She was right on both counts. I did roll my eyes when she gave me a book written by Barack Obama, and after reading it, I agree that it is beautiful. The artwork is incredible, and the message he his trying to send to his daughters about how strong and capable they are is moving.

The deeper messages of this book overshadow those two points, though, and after dismissing it, reeling my initial judgment back in, and giving it a chance, I am now going to give it an informed dismiss.

Each page of this book highlights an individual who has a character trait he wishes for his daughters: Creative, smart, brave, healer, kind, strong, etc. The individuals are all famous historical figures, diverse in race and split between 5 women and 8 men. Though both Martin Luther King, Jr and Cesar Chavez were part of movements, they are primarily known as the heads, or starters of those movements. The rest of the people featured are all known for their individual accomplishments, and not all of them are people's whose accomplishments I think are worth idealizing in the first place.

Neil Armstrong, for example. NASA's darling and the epitome of American values. Personally I do not feel like spending countless billions of dollars to send people and machinery into outer space when we are already consuming and devestating the planet we inhabit is a terrifying example of manifest destiny on steroids. The fact that this man, who was backed by these billions of dollars, is thought of as a hero is sort of baffling to me. I can understand how crazy and scary it would be to do what he did, but in what ways do his actions do anything actually beneficial for humankind, let alone, this planet we exist as a part of?!

Or George Washington, or Abraham Lincoln? The first, a figurehead, like all presidents, of a system that was oppressive from it's very conception. The second, one who received the disproportionate credit for ending slavery, which was brought into reality by a movement of people, while his actions were actually benefiting his chance of staying in a position of power and assisting supporting interests ability to continue to function profitably.

As a whole, the book is just peddling patriotism and the very American ideal of the individual being the most powerful entity, instead of people working collectively to create change.

This is not to say that I don't think Einstein was an incredible thinker, or O'Keefe an amazing painter. But the overarching ideal, again, of the individual being the most powerful force, even within a movement (Martin Luther King encapsulating the civil rights movement, or Cesar Chavez being the face of the migrant farmworker movement) supports the idea that it takes something special to do these amazing things, and that an "average" person does not possess this strength.

Saturday, February 5, 2011

The List, Thus Far

I have been wanting to compile the list of books I have reviewed, am excited to share with kids and recommend to adults. So here it is....

This list includes books that I like to call "Liberation Literature"

I define Liberation Literature as a book deals with one, or more, of the following topics:

1. Portrays loving respectful relationships between people, regardless of gender
2. Shows adults giving children autonomy and treating them with respect
3. Does not place rigid gender boundaries, or deals with the idea of gender as something other than binary
4. Shows family structures outside of the assumed "nuclear family" model
5. Portrays people of color as the lead character/ majority of the characters, without necessarily needing their ethnicity as a plot point
6. Uses cultural references from other sources than the "white/ christian" American perceived norm, especially without necessarily needing it as a plot point
7. Portrays working class, low income or transient folks with a normalcy and respect
8. Portrays life outside the capitalist system
9. Illustrates people living in/  or working to live in harmony with their surroundings
10. Questions the dominant culture of sexism, racism, heterosexism, classism and environmental devastation in a clever, beautiful, or profound way.


My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis Illustrated by Suzanne DeSimone


Looking Like Me by Walter Dean Myers Illustrated by Christopher Myers

Tough Chicks by Cece Meng Illustrated by Melissa Suber


All Kind of Families by Mary Ann Hoberman Illustrated by Marc Boutavant


Not One Damsel in Distress; World Folktales for Strong Girls by Jane Yolen Illustrated by Susan Guevara

When the Moon is Full; A Lunar Year by Penny Pollack Illustrated by Mary Azarian 


Hush Little Baby by Sylvia Long 


We Were Tired of Living in a House byLiesel Moak Skorpen Illustrated by Doris Burn


This Land is Your Land by Woody Guthrie Illustrated by Kathy Jakobsen


Just Like Me; Stories and Self- Portraits by Fourteen Artists ed. by Harriet Rohmer


Heather Has Two Mommies by Leslea Newman Illustrated by Diana Souza


And Tango Makes Three by Peter Parnell


In Our Mother's House by Patricia Polacco


Uncle Bobby's Wedding by Sarah S. Brannen


The Family Book by Todd Parr


King and King and Family by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland


King and King by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland


Old MacDonald had a Woodshop by Lisa Shulman Illustrated by Ashley Wolff


Kate and the Beanstalk by Mary Pope Osborne Illustrated by Giselle Potter


Free to Be, You and Me by Marlo Thomas and Friends


Night Shift Daddy by Eileen Spinelli, Illustrated by Melissa Iwai 


Smoky Night by Eve Bunting, Illustrated by David Diaz


The Table Where Rich People Sit by Byrd Baylor, Illustrated by Peter Parnell


The Tin Forest by Helen Ward and Wayne Anderson


The Dumpster Diver by Janet S. Wong, Illustrated by David Roberts


Stories For Free Children ed. by Letty Cottin Pogrebin


The Keeping Quilt by Patricia Polacco


Blueberries for Sal by Robert McCloskey