Pirate Girl by Cornelia Funke Illustrated by Kerstin Meyer
A simple story about a young pirate girl and her matriarchal pirate band and their encounter with an all male pirate crew. Silly, but a fun and empowering image of some bad-ass ladies.
Death of the Iron Horse by Paul Goble
I have mixed feelings about Goble's books. On the one hand, Goble writes beautifully about Native American folktales and history. On the other hand, I am uncomfortable with the fact that this is not his heritage, and being a white, British man, are they his stories to tell?
Death of the Iron Horse is the kind of kids' book I would like to see more of, as far as showing kids history from a perspective different than the one we normally hear in school and in the media. It tells the story of the derailment of a Union Pacific train by Cheyene people looking to defend their home from the encroachment of the white people who were stealing their land. Great book for opening discussion about history versus reality and the perceptions we have of Native American people.
And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell Illustrated by Henry Cole
The true story of two male penguins who get given an orphaned egg to hatch and raise as their own.
Nana Upstairs and Nana Downstairs by Tomie dePaola
My two favorite things about this book are how it shows families caring for their elders, and how begins to address death. I think that death is one of the things that we harm ourselves by waiting until we are confronted with it to figure out how we want to talk about it. This book begins to talk about aging and loss in a way that would be easy to share with kids.
The Little Green Goose by Adele Sansone Illustrated by Anke Faust
Mr. Goose wants a baby to raise himself, but none of the chickens will give him an egg to raise. He goes to the woods and finds a green egg that he sits on until out pops a baby lizard. Mr. Goose raises the baby as his own, in a story about what really makes a parent and a family.
Super Cilantro Girl by Juan Felipe Herrera Illustrated by Honorio Robledo Tapia
A great bilingual story about a young girl who turns into a superhero to rescue her mother who has been detained at the border for not having a green card. This story addresses how immigration issues affect families, and creates a space to talk further about these things with children.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Monday, February 14, 2011
Remaining Neutral is a Sea of Indoctrination
When I am having conversations with folks about my parenting choices, such as not wanting them to watch TV or being picky about what books I read them, I am often met with this question: What is the point?
The entire question is usually something like, "What is the point of even trying to shield them from the things you object to? Mainstream culture will seep in, no matter what. Your kid will eventually play princess and drink soda. We grew up doing those things, and we turned out just fine..."
I get it. I get that I am going to make compromises. I get that I cannot shelter my kids from everything I don't like about the world. I get that my ultimate goal as a parent is to help my kids figure out how to navigate the realities they will encounter and make decisions that are healthy for them and their community. But I also think that holding off on, say, seeping them in binary gender stereotypes for the first few years of their lives might just help them have a more open mind to the concept of gender as a spectrum. That, yes, most of people I love who are radical thinkers and doers were raised in very "mainstream" ways and managed to dissect and dismantle so much of what they were taught to find ways of existing in the world that feel more fulfilling to them. But that shit hurts. A lot. Wading through the muck and mire of sexism and racism and homphobia and transphobia and classism is grueling work. What if we gave our kids a fighting chance by laying out some other ways of thinking about things. They are going to spend a lifetime navigating the dominant culture's values and biases, and giving them skills with which to do so critically, but also a real groundwork in more just ways of exisiting seems like a good idea, to me.
The thing is this: I don't think there is any such thing as neutral, in this case. If we are not learning one thing, than we are learning another. If we are not questioning then we are accepting. There is always a set of values being instilled; From books, from TV, from school, from family, from every interaction and all the language we use, we are just too used to the status quo to notice much of it. We are creating and re-creating our culture, and we get to decide what that will look like. It is not born in our cells. We have to learn it to create it. There is no neutral.
On this note, I would like to review a couple of books given to us by family members, with the best of intentions. In both cases, I can completely see why the book was chosen. Both books contain incredible artwork, and a message of inspiration and a commitment to empowerment and doing good things for the world. I want to dig deeper, though, into the cultural values that are being passed along by the ways we think of as "doing good."
Listen to the Wind; The Story of Dr. Greg & Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson and Susan L. Roth Collages by Susan L. Roth
This is the kid's version of a very Oprah book-club book about a white, North American man who got lost hiking in the mountains of Pakistan. As a way of thanking the village of people that nursed him back to health, and returns to civilize them. Basically.
To me it is an age-old story of the missionary. That we are taught that the values and ideals we have as white, western, christian, capitalist people is the ideal that the rest of the world wants, or should want.
Dr. Greg helps to build them a school because they weren't equipped to do any "real" learning without desks and chalkboards, of course. Where now they study English and have the attention of the entire world who can get to them by the brand -new bridge that Dr. Greg altruistically helped to build. Lucky them. A couple of books written about you and a bridge, literally and figuratively, to Western culture. One more nail in the coffin of the beauty of authentic diversity and intact cultures.
The ideal of the the selfless missionary is one we are fed again and again in our culture, and the underlying value seems to be of "taming the heathens," a deeply ingrained christian, colonialist goal.
This particular story also invokes images of the blue eyed, white knight, singlehandedly coming to the rescue of those that are being unjustly imprisoned, in this case by their indigenous lifestyle and un-civilized intelligence.
I get the point of the story, but the story does not stand alone. It is part of the larger story we are telling about our values and the value of the rest of the world. In this context, I do not feel the need to pass along one more version of this lesson to my children.
Of Thee I Sing; A Letter to My Daughters by Barack Obama Illustrated by Loren Long
There is actually a lot about this book that I like. When my mother first gave it to us, it was with the the warning "I know that you are gonna dismiss this, but it is really beautiful, and you should give it a chance."
She was right on both counts. I did roll my eyes when she gave me a book written by Barack Obama, and after reading it, I agree that it is beautiful. The artwork is incredible, and the message he his trying to send to his daughters about how strong and capable they are is moving.
The deeper messages of this book overshadow those two points, though, and after dismissing it, reeling my initial judgment back in, and giving it a chance, I am now going to give it an informed dismiss.
Each page of this book highlights an individual who has a character trait he wishes for his daughters: Creative, smart, brave, healer, kind, strong, etc. The individuals are all famous historical figures, diverse in race and split between 5 women and 8 men. Though both Martin Luther King, Jr and Cesar Chavez were part of movements, they are primarily known as the heads, or starters of those movements. The rest of the people featured are all known for their individual accomplishments, and not all of them are people's whose accomplishments I think are worth idealizing in the first place.
Neil Armstrong, for example. NASA's darling and the epitome of American values. Personally I do not feel like spending countless billions of dollars to send people and machinery into outer space when we are already consuming and devestating the planet we inhabit is a terrifying example of manifest destiny on steroids. The fact that this man, who was backed by these billions of dollars, is thought of as a hero is sort of baffling to me. I can understand how crazy and scary it would be to do what he did, but in what ways do his actions do anything actually beneficial for humankind, let alone, this planet we exist as a part of?!
Or George Washington, or Abraham Lincoln? The first, a figurehead, like all presidents, of a system that was oppressive from it's very conception. The second, one who received the disproportionate credit for ending slavery, which was brought into reality by a movement of people, while his actions were actually benefiting his chance of staying in a position of power and assisting supporting interests ability to continue to function profitably.
As a whole, the book is just peddling patriotism and the very American ideal of the individual being the most powerful entity, instead of people working collectively to create change.
This is not to say that I don't think Einstein was an incredible thinker, or O'Keefe an amazing painter. But the overarching ideal, again, of the individual being the most powerful force, even within a movement (Martin Luther King encapsulating the civil rights movement, or Cesar Chavez being the face of the migrant farmworker movement) supports the idea that it takes something special to do these amazing things, and that an "average" person does not possess this strength.
The entire question is usually something like, "What is the point of even trying to shield them from the things you object to? Mainstream culture will seep in, no matter what. Your kid will eventually play princess and drink soda. We grew up doing those things, and we turned out just fine..."
I get it. I get that I am going to make compromises. I get that I cannot shelter my kids from everything I don't like about the world. I get that my ultimate goal as a parent is to help my kids figure out how to navigate the realities they will encounter and make decisions that are healthy for them and their community. But I also think that holding off on, say, seeping them in binary gender stereotypes for the first few years of their lives might just help them have a more open mind to the concept of gender as a spectrum. That, yes, most of people I love who are radical thinkers and doers were raised in very "mainstream" ways and managed to dissect and dismantle so much of what they were taught to find ways of existing in the world that feel more fulfilling to them. But that shit hurts. A lot. Wading through the muck and mire of sexism and racism and homphobia and transphobia and classism is grueling work. What if we gave our kids a fighting chance by laying out some other ways of thinking about things. They are going to spend a lifetime navigating the dominant culture's values and biases, and giving them skills with which to do so critically, but also a real groundwork in more just ways of exisiting seems like a good idea, to me.
The thing is this: I don't think there is any such thing as neutral, in this case. If we are not learning one thing, than we are learning another. If we are not questioning then we are accepting. There is always a set of values being instilled; From books, from TV, from school, from family, from every interaction and all the language we use, we are just too used to the status quo to notice much of it. We are creating and re-creating our culture, and we get to decide what that will look like. It is not born in our cells. We have to learn it to create it. There is no neutral.
On this note, I would like to review a couple of books given to us by family members, with the best of intentions. In both cases, I can completely see why the book was chosen. Both books contain incredible artwork, and a message of inspiration and a commitment to empowerment and doing good things for the world. I want to dig deeper, though, into the cultural values that are being passed along by the ways we think of as "doing good."
Listen to the Wind; The Story of Dr. Greg & Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson and Susan L. Roth Collages by Susan L. Roth
This is the kid's version of a very Oprah book-club book about a white, North American man who got lost hiking in the mountains of Pakistan. As a way of thanking the village of people that nursed him back to health, and returns to civilize them. Basically.
To me it is an age-old story of the missionary. That we are taught that the values and ideals we have as white, western, christian, capitalist people is the ideal that the rest of the world wants, or should want.
Dr. Greg helps to build them a school because they weren't equipped to do any "real" learning without desks and chalkboards, of course. Where now they study English and have the attention of the entire world who can get to them by the brand -new bridge that Dr. Greg altruistically helped to build. Lucky them. A couple of books written about you and a bridge, literally and figuratively, to Western culture. One more nail in the coffin of the beauty of authentic diversity and intact cultures.
The ideal of the the selfless missionary is one we are fed again and again in our culture, and the underlying value seems to be of "taming the heathens," a deeply ingrained christian, colonialist goal.
This particular story also invokes images of the blue eyed, white knight, singlehandedly coming to the rescue of those that are being unjustly imprisoned, in this case by their indigenous lifestyle and un-civilized intelligence.
I get the point of the story, but the story does not stand alone. It is part of the larger story we are telling about our values and the value of the rest of the world. In this context, I do not feel the need to pass along one more version of this lesson to my children.
Of Thee I Sing; A Letter to My Daughters by Barack Obama Illustrated by Loren Long
There is actually a lot about this book that I like. When my mother first gave it to us, it was with the the warning "I know that you are gonna dismiss this, but it is really beautiful, and you should give it a chance."
She was right on both counts. I did roll my eyes when she gave me a book written by Barack Obama, and after reading it, I agree that it is beautiful. The artwork is incredible, and the message he his trying to send to his daughters about how strong and capable they are is moving.
The deeper messages of this book overshadow those two points, though, and after dismissing it, reeling my initial judgment back in, and giving it a chance, I am now going to give it an informed dismiss.
Each page of this book highlights an individual who has a character trait he wishes for his daughters: Creative, smart, brave, healer, kind, strong, etc. The individuals are all famous historical figures, diverse in race and split between 5 women and 8 men. Though both Martin Luther King, Jr and Cesar Chavez were part of movements, they are primarily known as the heads, or starters of those movements. The rest of the people featured are all known for their individual accomplishments, and not all of them are people's whose accomplishments I think are worth idealizing in the first place.
Neil Armstrong, for example. NASA's darling and the epitome of American values. Personally I do not feel like spending countless billions of dollars to send people and machinery into outer space when we are already consuming and devestating the planet we inhabit is a terrifying example of manifest destiny on steroids. The fact that this man, who was backed by these billions of dollars, is thought of as a hero is sort of baffling to me. I can understand how crazy and scary it would be to do what he did, but in what ways do his actions do anything actually beneficial for humankind, let alone, this planet we exist as a part of?!
Or George Washington, or Abraham Lincoln? The first, a figurehead, like all presidents, of a system that was oppressive from it's very conception. The second, one who received the disproportionate credit for ending slavery, which was brought into reality by a movement of people, while his actions were actually benefiting his chance of staying in a position of power and assisting supporting interests ability to continue to function profitably.
As a whole, the book is just peddling patriotism and the very American ideal of the individual being the most powerful entity, instead of people working collectively to create change.
This is not to say that I don't think Einstein was an incredible thinker, or O'Keefe an amazing painter. But the overarching ideal, again, of the individual being the most powerful force, even within a movement (Martin Luther King encapsulating the civil rights movement, or Cesar Chavez being the face of the migrant farmworker movement) supports the idea that it takes something special to do these amazing things, and that an "average" person does not possess this strength.
Saturday, February 5, 2011
The List, Thus Far
I have been wanting to compile the list of books I have reviewed, am excited to share with kids and recommend to adults. So here it is....
This list includes books that I like to call "Liberation Literature"
I define Liberation Literature as a book deals with one, or more, of the following topics:
1. Portrays loving respectful relationships between people, regardless of gender
2. Shows adults giving children autonomy and treating them with respect
3. Does not place rigid gender boundaries, or deals with the idea of gender as something other than binary
4. Shows family structures outside of the assumed "nuclear family" model
5. Portrays people of color as the lead character/ majority of the characters, without necessarily needing their ethnicity as a plot point
6. Uses cultural references from other sources than the "white/ christian" American perceived norm, especially without necessarily needing it as a plot point
7. Portrays working class, low income or transient folks with a normalcy and respect
8. Portrays life outside the capitalist system
9. Illustrates people living in/ or working to live in harmony with their surroundings
10. Questions the dominant culture of sexism, racism, heterosexism, classism and environmental devastation in a clever, beautiful, or profound way.
My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis Illustrated by Suzanne DeSimone
Looking Like Me by Walter Dean Myers Illustrated by Christopher Myers
Tough Chicks by Cece Meng Illustrated by Melissa Suber
All Kind of Families by Mary Ann Hoberman Illustrated by Marc Boutavant
Not One Damsel in Distress; World Folktales for Strong Girls by Jane Yolen Illustrated by Susan Guevara
When the Moon is Full; A Lunar Year by Penny Pollack Illustrated by Mary Azarian
Hush Little Baby by Sylvia Long
We Were Tired of Living in a House byLiesel Moak Skorpen Illustrated by Doris Burn
This Land is Your Land by Woody Guthrie Illustrated by Kathy Jakobsen
Just Like Me; Stories and Self- Portraits by Fourteen Artists ed. by Harriet Rohmer
Heather Has Two Mommies by Leslea Newman Illustrated by Diana Souza
And Tango Makes Three by Peter Parnell
In Our Mother's House by Patricia Polacco
Uncle Bobby's Wedding by Sarah S. Brannen
The Family Book by Todd Parr
King and King and Family by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland
King and King by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland
Old MacDonald had a Woodshop by Lisa Shulman Illustrated by Ashley Wolff
Kate and the Beanstalk by Mary Pope Osborne Illustrated by Giselle Potter
Free to Be, You and Me by Marlo Thomas and Friends
Night Shift Daddy by Eileen Spinelli, Illustrated by Melissa Iwai
Smoky Night by Eve Bunting, Illustrated by David Diaz
The Table Where Rich People Sit by Byrd Baylor, Illustrated by Peter Parnell
The Tin Forest by Helen Ward and Wayne Anderson
The Dumpster Diver by Janet S. Wong, Illustrated by David Roberts
Stories For Free Children ed. by Letty Cottin Pogrebin
The Keeping Quilt by Patricia Polacco
Blueberries for Sal by Robert McCloskey
This list includes books that I like to call "Liberation Literature"
I define Liberation Literature as a book deals with one, or more, of the following topics:
1. Portrays loving respectful relationships between people, regardless of gender
2. Shows adults giving children autonomy and treating them with respect
3. Does not place rigid gender boundaries, or deals with the idea of gender as something other than binary
4. Shows family structures outside of the assumed "nuclear family" model
5. Portrays people of color as the lead character/ majority of the characters, without necessarily needing their ethnicity as a plot point
6. Uses cultural references from other sources than the "white/ christian" American perceived norm, especially without necessarily needing it as a plot point
7. Portrays working class, low income or transient folks with a normalcy and respect
8. Portrays life outside the capitalist system
9. Illustrates people living in/ or working to live in harmony with their surroundings
10. Questions the dominant culture of sexism, racism, heterosexism, classism and environmental devastation in a clever, beautiful, or profound way.
My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis Illustrated by Suzanne DeSimone
Looking Like Me by Walter Dean Myers Illustrated by Christopher Myers
Tough Chicks by Cece Meng Illustrated by Melissa Suber
All Kind of Families by Mary Ann Hoberman Illustrated by Marc Boutavant
Not One Damsel in Distress; World Folktales for Strong Girls by Jane Yolen Illustrated by Susan Guevara
When the Moon is Full; A Lunar Year by Penny Pollack Illustrated by Mary Azarian
Hush Little Baby by Sylvia Long
We Were Tired of Living in a House byLiesel Moak Skorpen Illustrated by Doris Burn
This Land is Your Land by Woody Guthrie Illustrated by Kathy Jakobsen
Just Like Me; Stories and Self- Portraits by Fourteen Artists ed. by Harriet Rohmer
Heather Has Two Mommies by Leslea Newman Illustrated by Diana Souza
And Tango Makes Three by Peter Parnell
In Our Mother's House by Patricia Polacco
Uncle Bobby's Wedding by Sarah S. Brannen
The Family Book by Todd Parr
King and King and Family by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland
King and King by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland
Old MacDonald had a Woodshop by Lisa Shulman Illustrated by Ashley Wolff
Kate and the Beanstalk by Mary Pope Osborne Illustrated by Giselle Potter
Free to Be, You and Me by Marlo Thomas and Friends
Night Shift Daddy by Eileen Spinelli, Illustrated by Melissa Iwai
Smoky Night by Eve Bunting, Illustrated by David Diaz
The Table Where Rich People Sit by Byrd Baylor, Illustrated by Peter Parnell
The Tin Forest by Helen Ward and Wayne Anderson
The Dumpster Diver by Janet S. Wong, Illustrated by David Roberts
Stories For Free Children ed. by Letty Cottin Pogrebin
The Keeping Quilt by Patricia Polacco
Blueberries for Sal by Robert McCloskey
Friday, February 4, 2011
THE LIST: Books I Like #5
My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis Illustrated by Suzanne DeSimone
I was excited when this book came out (officially just a few weeks ago!) I had been reading and watching local news stories about it for a couple of months, as the author is from nearby Seattle. In a couple of weeks the author is going to be at the library here in town, and I am looking forward to hearing her speak.
The intention behind this book is beautiful and something I have watched a lot of friends figure out how to face with their own kids; How do you deal with the social repercussions of your male child wanting to wear dresses and sparkly things?
For the most part I love the execution of the book as well. The illustrations are simple and sweetly childlike. I also really appreciate the honesty with which the author is speaking to children about something that can feel terrible to all of us: the judgment of others. I think people of all ages can relate to this feeling and it is nice to see a children's book address it head-on.
My only critique of the book, and something I change while reading it to my children, is the use of the word "girl" when pointing out the sort of clothes and beautiful things that the child is drawn to. I understand that the dominant social language refers to things such as clothing and toys by rigidly putting them into boxes with binary gender pronouns, and I think, as people questioning the relevance of that, that language is one of the first things that needs to change. By still calling them "girls' clothes" and "girl things" we are perpetuating the idea that there is a gendered box that "normal" people fit into depending on their sex. That that identity comes with pre-arranged likes and dislikes including toys, jobs, colors and so much else.
I know that Kilodavis is working hard to help make room for acceptance for her child and all those who don't fit into stereotypes and cultural expectations. The truth is, that most of us don't, and I think we all need to work harder to dissolve the useless boxes we cram each other into, and language is an incredibly powerful part of that.
Looking Like Me by Walter Dean Myers Illustrated by Christopher Myers
One of my new favorite books! A vibrant, exciting book to read to kids, with a lyrical quality and a part that gets repeated, (which they love!) This book talks about all the different identities that we wear, with a particularly Suess-ian quality and unique color-blocked illustrations over colaged photographs.
It is also positive, urban, and full of beautiful images of people of color.
Tough Chicks by Cece Meng Illustrated by Melissa Suber
Awesome story about three baby chicks who are spunky, curious and different than the other chicks. The other mama hens and the farmer want Mama Hen to "make them be good," to which she replies, "But they're tough and they're smart and they're different in a good way."
The farmer's tractor breaks and the three tough chicks know how to fix it, and finally everyone appreciates how tough, smart and good they are.
This book is a great metaphor for what we do to girls in our culture by expecting them to "Be cute. Be quiet. Be good."
Tough chicks shows three strong, smart, little dudes whose curiosity (and the support of their awesome mama) helps them to help their community in the end.
All Kind of Families by Mary Ann Hoberman Illustrated by Marc Boutavant
"Bottlecaps, gingersnaps, buttons or rings
You can make families from all sorts of things!"
All Kinds of Families talks about all the different things that can be a family, the different ways people can be a family, and the way we come from our ancestors and will become ancestors ourselves.
The book is super fun to read with it's sing-songy style and fun to look at with it's super-hipster art.
There is one image of a white person wearing a stereotypical "Indian" feather headdress as costume, which is pretty racist and I wish was not in the book. There is also a page depicting marriage that reads:
"A saucer and cup can be brother and sister
A comb and a brush can be husband and wife
A plate and a bowl can be missus and mister
And so can the spoon or the fork or the knife"
I love the sentiment, and it almost speaks to marriage equality, if the the pronouns weren't as gender specific. I am still trying to figure out the best way to read that page to the kids.
I was excited when this book came out (officially just a few weeks ago!) I had been reading and watching local news stories about it for a couple of months, as the author is from nearby Seattle. In a couple of weeks the author is going to be at the library here in town, and I am looking forward to hearing her speak.
The intention behind this book is beautiful and something I have watched a lot of friends figure out how to face with their own kids; How do you deal with the social repercussions of your male child wanting to wear dresses and sparkly things?
For the most part I love the execution of the book as well. The illustrations are simple and sweetly childlike. I also really appreciate the honesty with which the author is speaking to children about something that can feel terrible to all of us: the judgment of others. I think people of all ages can relate to this feeling and it is nice to see a children's book address it head-on.
My only critique of the book, and something I change while reading it to my children, is the use of the word "girl" when pointing out the sort of clothes and beautiful things that the child is drawn to. I understand that the dominant social language refers to things such as clothing and toys by rigidly putting them into boxes with binary gender pronouns, and I think, as people questioning the relevance of that, that language is one of the first things that needs to change. By still calling them "girls' clothes" and "girl things" we are perpetuating the idea that there is a gendered box that "normal" people fit into depending on their sex. That that identity comes with pre-arranged likes and dislikes including toys, jobs, colors and so much else.
I know that Kilodavis is working hard to help make room for acceptance for her child and all those who don't fit into stereotypes and cultural expectations. The truth is, that most of us don't, and I think we all need to work harder to dissolve the useless boxes we cram each other into, and language is an incredibly powerful part of that.
Looking Like Me by Walter Dean Myers Illustrated by Christopher Myers
One of my new favorite books! A vibrant, exciting book to read to kids, with a lyrical quality and a part that gets repeated, (which they love!) This book talks about all the different identities that we wear, with a particularly Suess-ian quality and unique color-blocked illustrations over colaged photographs.
It is also positive, urban, and full of beautiful images of people of color.
Tough Chicks by Cece Meng Illustrated by Melissa Suber
Awesome story about three baby chicks who are spunky, curious and different than the other chicks. The other mama hens and the farmer want Mama Hen to "make them be good," to which she replies, "But they're tough and they're smart and they're different in a good way."
The farmer's tractor breaks and the three tough chicks know how to fix it, and finally everyone appreciates how tough, smart and good they are.
This book is a great metaphor for what we do to girls in our culture by expecting them to "Be cute. Be quiet. Be good."
Tough chicks shows three strong, smart, little dudes whose curiosity (and the support of their awesome mama) helps them to help their community in the end.
All Kind of Families by Mary Ann Hoberman Illustrated by Marc Boutavant
"Bottlecaps, gingersnaps, buttons or rings
You can make families from all sorts of things!"
All Kinds of Families talks about all the different things that can be a family, the different ways people can be a family, and the way we come from our ancestors and will become ancestors ourselves.
The book is super fun to read with it's sing-songy style and fun to look at with it's super-hipster art.
There is one image of a white person wearing a stereotypical "Indian" feather headdress as costume, which is pretty racist and I wish was not in the book. There is also a page depicting marriage that reads:
"A saucer and cup can be brother and sister
A comb and a brush can be husband and wife
A plate and a bowl can be missus and mister
And so can the spoon or the fork or the knife"
I love the sentiment, and it almost speaks to marriage equality, if the the pronouns weren't as gender specific. I am still trying to figure out the best way to read that page to the kids.
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